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ERICKSONIAN PATTER
A colleague
of mine sent me this perhaps 20 years ago. I read it to a patient, and
have it on heavy stock paper. It was Barber's demonstration of how
Erickson
used the 6 principle ideas which every therapist should communicate when
using hypnosis. He called it a Rapid Induction of Analgesia and said
basically
this role to a series of dental patients before a root canal. He introduced
himself as "Oh Dr. Dentist asked me to help you relax a moment, you'd
really like to relax more right now, I know ... and just go on. Phrasing
and emphasis will alter the effectiveness of this chatter a great deal,
but for that you'll have to practice with a master for a time.
In all of
the charts of almost every client of mine for 20 years is a note "Barber's
RIA, TWGR".
TWGR means "tolerated well, good result." I've
never had a bad results. Interesting results, yes, but no bad ones.
BARBER'S
Stairs Script
I'd like
to talk to you for a moment to see if you'd like to feel more comfortable
and relaxed than you might expect.
Would you
like to feel more comfortable than you do right now?
I'm quite
sure that it will seem to you that I have really done nothing, that nothing
has happened at all. You may feel a bit more relaxed, in a moment, but
I doubt that you'll notice any other changes.
I'd like
you to notice, though, if you're surprised by anything else you might
notice. OK, then . . really the best way to BEGIN FEELING MORE COMFORTABLE
is just to begin by sitting as comfortably as you can right now . . .
go ahead and adjust yourself to the most comfortable position you like
. . . that's fine.
Now, I'd
like you to notice how much more comfortable you can feel by just taking
one very big, satisfying deep breath. Go
ahead . . . big, deep, satisfying breath. . . That's fine.
You may
already notice HOW GOOD THAT FEELS. . . how warm your neck and shoulders
can feel. . . Now, then. . . I'd like you to take four more very deep,
VERY COMFORTABLE breaths. . . and, as you exhale, notice. . . just notice
how comfortable your shoulders can become. . . and notice how comfortable
your eyes can feel when they close. . . and when they close. . . just
let them stay closed. . . that's right, just notice them. . . and notice,
too, how when you exhale, you can just FEEL THAT RELAXATION BEGINNING
TO SINK IN. . .
Good, that's
fine. . . now, as you continue breathing, comfortably and deeply and rythmically,
all I'd like you to do is to picture in your mind. . . just imagine a
staircase, any kind you like. . . with 20 steps, and you at the top. .
.
Now, you
don't need to see all 20 steps at once. . . you can see any or all of
the staircase, any way you like. . . that's fine. . . Just notice yourself,
at the top of the staircase, and the step you're on, and any others you
like. . . how ever you see it is fine. . .
Now, in
a moment, but not yet, I'm going to begin to count, out loud, from one
to 20, . . . as you may already have guessed. . . as I count each number
I'd like you to take a step down that staircase. . . see yourself stepping
down, feel yourself stepping down, one step for each number I count. .
.
and all
you need to do is notice, just notice how much more comfortable and relaxed
you can feel at each step, as you go down the staircase. . .
one step
for each number that I count. . . the larger the number, the farther down
the staircase. . . the farther down the staircase, the more comfortable
you can feel. . . one step for each number. . . all right, you can begin
to get ready. . . now, I'm going to begin. . . one. . . one step down
the staircase. . . two. . . two steps down the staircase, . . .that's
fine. . .
THREE. .
. three steps down the staircase. . . and maybe you already notice how
much more relaxed you can feel. . . I wonder if there are places in your
body that feel more relaxed than others. . . perhaps your shoulders FEEL
MORE RELAXED than your neck. . . perhaps your legs feel more relaxed than
your arms. . . I don't know, and it really doesn't matter. . . all that
matters is that you feel comfortable. . . that's all. . .
FOUR. .
. four steps down the staircase, perhaps feeling already places in your
body beginning to relax. . . I wonder if the deep relaxing, restful heaviness
in your forehead is already beginning to spread and flow. . . down, across
your eyes, down across your face, into your mouth and jaw. . . down through
your neck, deep, restful, heavy. . .
FIVE. .
. five steps down the staircase. . . a quarter of the way down, and already
beginning, perhaps, really, really, to enjoy your relaxation and comfort.
. .
SIX. . .
six steps down the staircase. . . perhaps beginning to notice that all
the sounds which were distracting become less so. . . that all the sounds
you can hear become a part of your experience of comfort and relaxation.
. . anything you can notice becomes a part of your experience of comfort
and relaxation. . .
SEVEN. .
. seven steps down that staircase. . . that's fine. . . perhaps noticing
the heavy, restful, comfortably relaxing feeling spreading down into your
shoulders, into your arms. . .
I wonder
if you notice that one arm feels heavier than the other. . . perhaps your
left arm feels a bit heavier than your right. . . perhaps your right arm
feels heavier than your left. . . I don't know, perhaps they both feel
equally, comfortably heavy. . .
It really
doesn't matter. . .just letting yourself become more and more aware of
that comfortable heaviness, or is it a feeling of lightness?. . . I really
don't know, and it really doesn't matter. . .
EIGHT. .
. eight steps down the staircase. . . perhaps noticing that, even as you
relax, your heart seems to beat much faster and harder than you might
expect, perhaps noticing the tingling in your fingers. . . perhaps wondering
about the fluttering of you your heavy eyelids. . .
NINE. .
. nine steps down the staircase, breathing comfortably, slowly, and deeply
restful, noticing that heaviness really beginning to sink in, as you continue
to notice the pleasant, restful, comfortable relaxation just spread through
your body. . .
TEN. . .
ten steps down the staircase. . . halfway to the bottom of the staircase
wondering perhaps what might be happening, perhaps wondering if anything
at all is happening. . . and yet, knowing that it really doesn't matter,
feeling so pleasantly restful, just continuing to notice the growing,
spreading, comfortable relaxation. . .
ELEVEN.
. . eleven steps down the staircase. . . noticing that as you feel increasingly
heavy, more and more comfortable, there's nothing to bother you, nothing
to disturb you, as you become deeper and deeper relaxed. . .
TWELVE.
. .twelve steps down the staircase. . . I wonder if you notice how easily
you can hear the sound of my voice. . . how easily you can understand
the words I say. . . with nothing to bother, nothing to disturb. . .
THIRTEEN.
. . thirteen steps down the staircase, feeling more and more the real
enjoyment of this relaxation and comfort. . .
FOURTEEN.
. . fourteen steps down the staircase. . . noticing perhaps the sinking,
restful pleasantness as your body seems just to sink down, deeper and
deeper into the chair, with nothing to bother, nothing disturb. . . as
though the chair holds you comfortably and warmly. . .
FIFTEEN.
. . fifteen steps down the staircase. . . three-quarters of the way down
the staircase. . . deeper and deeper relaxed, absolutely nothing at all
to do. . . but just enjoy yourself. . .
SIXTEEN.
. . sixteen steps down the staircase. . . wondering perhaps what to experience
at the bottom of the staircase. . . and yet knowing how much more ready
you already feel to become deeper and deeper relaxed. . . more and more
comfortable, with nothing to bother, nothing to disturb. . .
SEVENTEEN.
. . seventeen steps down the staircase. . . closer and closer to the bottom,
perhaps feeling your heart beating harder and harder, perhaps feeling
the heaviness in your arms and legs become even more clearly comfortable.
. . knowing that nothing really matters except your enjoyment of your
experience of comfortable relaxation, with nothing to bother, nothing
to disturb. . .
EIGHTEEN.
. .eighteen steps down the staircase. . . almost at the bottom, with nothing
to bother, nothing to disturb, as you continue to go deeper and deeper
relaxed. . . heavy. . . comfortable. . restfully. . .
NINETEEN.
. . nineteen steps down the staircase. . . almost at the bottom of the
staircase. . . nothing to bother, nothing to disturb you as you CONTINUE
TO FEEL MORE AND MORE COMFORTABLE, more and more rested. . . more and
more comfortable. . . just nothing. . . and now. . .
TWENTY.
. .bottom of the staircase. DEEPLY, DEEPLY RELAXED. . .deeper with every
breath you take. . . as I talk to you for a moment about something you
already know a lot about. . .
remembering
and forgetting. . . you know a lot about it, because we all do a lot of
it. . . every moment, of every day you remember . . . then you forget,
so you can remember something else. .
You can't
remember everything, all at once, so you let some memories move quietly
back in your mind. . . I wonder if you remember what you had for lunch
yesterday. . . I would guess that, with not too much effort, you can remember
what you had for lunch yesterday. . . and yet. . . I wonder if you remember
what you had for lunch a month ago today. . .
I guess
the EFFORT IS REALLY TOO GREAT to dig up that memory, although, of course
IT IS THERE. . . somewhere, deep in the back of your mind. . . no need
to remember so YOU DON'T. . .
and I wonder
if YOU'LL BE PLEASED to notice that the things we talk about today, with
your eyes closed, are the things which you'll remember tomorrow, or the
next day. . . or next week . . . I wonder if you'll decide to let the
memory of these things rest quietly in the back of your mind. . .
or if you'll
remember gradually, a bit at a time. . . or perhaps at once, to be resting
again in the back of your mind. . perhaps you'll be surprised to notice
that the reception room is the place for your memory to surface. . . perhaps
not. . . perhaps you'll notice that it is more comfortable to remember
on another day altogether. . . it really doesn't matter. . . doesn't matter
at all. . . whatever you do, however you choose to remember . . . is just
fine. . .absolutely natural. . . doesn't matter at all. . whether you
remember tomorrow or the next day, whether you remember all at once, or
gradually, . . . completely or only partially . . . whether you let the
memory rest quietly and comfortably in the back of your mind. . . really
doesn't matter at all. . .
and, too,
I wonder if you'll notice that you'll FEEL SURPRISED that your visit here
today is so much more pleasant and comfortable than you might have expected.
. .
I wonder
if you'll NOTICE THAT SURPRISE. . . that there are NO OTHER FEELINGS.
. .perhaps you'll FEEL CURIOUS about that surprise. . .surprise, curiosity.
. .
I wonder
if you'll BE PLEASED to notice that today. . . and any day. . . whenever
you feel your head resting back against the headrest . . . when you feel
your head resting back like this. . . you'll feel reminded of how very
comfortable you are feeling right now. . .
even more
comfortable than you feel even now. . . comfortable, relaxed. . . nothing
to bother, nothing to disturb. . .
I wonder
if you'll be reminded of this comfort, too, and relaxation, by just noticing
the brightness of the light above. . . perhaps THIS COMFORT AND RELAXATION
will come flooding back, quickly and automatically, whenever you fine
yourself beginning to sit down in the dental chair. . . I DON'T KNOW exactly
how it will seem. . . I only know, as perhaps you also know. . .
that your
experience will seem surprisingly MORE PLEASANT, surprisingly MORE COMFORTABLE,
surprisingly MORE RESTFUL than you MIGHT EXPECT. . . with nothing to bother,
nothing to disturb. . .
whatever
you are able to notice. . . everything CAN BE A PART of your experience
of comfortableness, restfulness and restfulness and relaxation. . . everything
you notice CAN BE A PART of being absolutely comfortable. . .
and I want
to remind you that whenever (*******) touches your right shoulder, like
this. . . you'll experience a feeling. . . a feeling of being ready to
do something. . . perhaps a feeling of being ready to close your eyes.
. . perhaps a feeling of being ready to be even more comfortable. . .
perhaps ready to know even more clearly that there's nothing to bother,
nothing to disturb. . . perhaps ready to become heavy and tired . . .
I don't know. . .
but whenever
I touch your right shoulder, like this. . . you'll experience a feeling.
. . of being ready to do something. . . it doesn't really matter. . .
perhaps just a feeling of being ready to be even more surprised. . . it
doesn't really matter. . .
nothing
really matters but your experience of comfort and relaxation. . . absolute
deep comfort and relaxation. . . with nothing to bother, nothing to disturb.
. . that's fine. . .
and, now,
as you continue to enjoy your comfortable relaxation, perhaps you'd like
to notice how very nice it feels to be this way. . . really to enjoy your
own experience, really to enjoy the feelings your body can give you. .
. and in a moment, but not yet. . . not until you're ready. . . but in
a moment, I'm going to count back from 20 to 1. . . and as you know, I'd
like you to feel yourself going back up the steps. . . one step for each
number. . . you'll have all the time you need. . . after all, time is
relative. . .
feel yourself
slowly and comfortably going back up the steps, one step for each number
I count. . . more alert as you go back up the steps, one step for each
number I count. . . when I reach three, your eyes will be almost ready
to open. . .when I reach two, they will have opened. . . and, when I reach
one, you'll be alert, awake, refreshed. . .perhaps as though you'd had
a nice nap. . . alert, refreshed, comfortable. . . and even though you'll
still be very comfortable and relaxed, you'll be alert and feeling very
well. . . perhaps surprised, but feeling very well. . . perhaps ready
to be surprised. . . no hurry, you'll have all the time you need, as you
begin to go back up these restful steps. . . TWENTY. . . NINETEEN. . .
EIGHTEEN. . . that's right. . . feel yourself going back up the steps.
. . ready to be surprised, knowing what you had for lunch yesterday, and
yet. . . SEVENTEEN. . . SIXTEEN. . . FIFTEEN. . . a quarter of the way
back up, more and more alert. . . no rush, plenty of time. . . feel yourself
becoming more and more alert. . . FOURTEEN. . . THIRTEEN. . . TWELVE.
. . ELEVEN. . . TEN. . . halfway back up the stairs. . . more and more
alert. . . comfortable but more and more alert. . . NINE . . . that's
right. . . feel yourself becoming more and more alert. . . EIGHT. . .
SEVEN. . . SIX. . . FIVE. . . FOUR. . . THREE. . . . . . that's right,
. . . TWO. . . and ONE. . . that's right, wide awake, alert, relaxed,
refreshed, . . . that's fine. How do you feel? Relaxed? Comfortable?
RAPID
INDUCTION OF ANALGESIA, "Stairs Script", by Joseph Barber |